Are you finally ready to meet someone after a breakup, divorce or loss? It’s not easy seeking a compatible partner. There is no secret recipe to finding love, but there are ways to make sure you are following the right guidelines and making sure you get off to a good start. Here are 5 important tips to finding lasting love. 

  1. Are you complete with your past? You want to be complete with your past and make sure you are ready for love. Are you available to let love in? It is important to mourn a breakup even if you are happy to be out of the relationship. It is necessary to grieve a loss and be at peace with a past relationship before being ready to meet someone new. You will not have the energy and space to create and manifest the right person in your life if you have not properly mourned the break-up or loss and feel at peace with your past.
  2. Do you have unresolved issues that cause blind spots in your relationships? We need to take ownership of our issues and what is going on in our subconscious minds. It’s important to ask yourself “what are my unhealthy patterns in relationships? Why did I choose partners with certain personality traits? Why do I choose unavailable partners? You want to work on your issues and reasons you chose to date certain types of people. As you grow more aware and connected to your deeper issues and heal, you can be ready to find love.
  3. Do you know what you want in a partner? Are you looking for a life partner? It’s necessary to be honest with yourself if you aren’t ready for a serious relationship. You want to process past relationships and what didn’t work so you can make sure you don’t encounter the same kinds of people and make the same mistakes. Finding a life-long partner is very hard and takes a lot of energy and work. You want to make sure you are in touch with your needs and know what’s important to you in partner and relationship.
  4. What is your belief system? Do you know what your belief system around love is? Mindset is very important when you are looking for love. You want to avoid the negative people and influences in your life who aren’t supportive or don’t believe you can find love. You need to protect yourself from negative energy as some may challenge your ability to find love. Establish clear and protective boundaries and choose carefully who you want to share this part of your life with.
  5. Do you have an action plan? Once you feel you are ready and there aren’t internal issues blocking you from finding love, you want to have an action plan to make this dream a reality. How will you meet new people? What do you feel ready to do in order to find love? Are you open to online dating, volunteering, matchmaker, etc.? Putting an action plan in place will help motivate you through the process of finding love.

It’s not easy navigating the dating process, but if you feel centered and connected to your needs, you will make more solid choices. 

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