I have counseled many couples throughout the years who have had major problems in their relationships because of unmet expectations. I agree with Derek Harvey in that having certain expectations can be a "silent killer of relationships.."
You’ve decided to part ways. Even though the decision was right for you, it wasn’t easy. It’s still not. Divorce is a process. The healing doesn’t happen overnight.
Please see below for an interesting article on "11 Rules on Marriage You Won't Learn in School." After reading the article I was inspired to share this practical advice.
Infertility is a problem where a couple is not able to get pregnant after one year of trying (or six months if a woman is 35 or older.) This also includes women who can get pregnant but are unable to stay pregnant.
Communication in a healthy relationship isn’t as simple as saying ”I love you” but requires keeping your finger on the pulse of your partner’s feelings and developing positive communication habits.
Please see below for an interesting article about relationship habits that are unhealthy but common among couples. I have seen these habits come up with many couples that I have worked with in my practice over the years. As my couples grow more conscious in their relationships they are able to let go of these habits.
Never mind that age-old childhood saying about “sticks and stones” - in the real world, words do harm and have a way of wedging themselves between couples and, over time, of building up a fortress of resentment and anger.
In the beginning of your relationship, you smiled from the minute you woke up to the moment you laid your head on your pillow to go to sleep. The happiness you felt in your relationship was so clear, so palpable, that it was almost contagious to those around you.
Please see below for an excellent article about marriage advice from couples who have been married for 10 plus years.
Whether you’re having one of the best days of your relationship or you’re mid-argument, your partner wants to know you’re still in love. Daily affirmations serve as gentle reminders that you’re still passionate, serious, and planning to stick around for years to come — hopefully forever.
